(2/2) someone absolutely shredded me for it. like, to the degree of “you’re throwing a whole community under the bus just because it didn’t suit your aesthetics lmaooo” when I didn’t. the context was literally just me saying I don’t like the colours in the polyam flag, a community to which I belong (and they continued assblasting me even after being shown that a /lot/ of polyam people don’t like the flag that much). sorry. it’s been eating me for ages now
Nah. I’m genderfluid and you will never catch me using the genderfluid flag for fuckall because I think it is goddamn hideous. Same re the polyamory flag, and a couple of others. I mean, honestly, who thought “let’s make bold red, blue and yellow touch each other, there’s no way that’ll be a clashy disaster…”
Sometimes, shit is ugly. Sometimes, it hurts your sensory sensitivities. Sometimes it just makes your skin look washed out or sallow or ashy.
You’re not obligated to like everything your community does.
That’s a really weird, sort of nationalistic belief, tbh.
Nationalism isn’t the right word for that, but I haven’t had any coffee yet and googling “the parent force behind nationalism” isn’t really turning up anything for me. Identitarianism, possibly.
Anyway, you’re never under any obligation to like the aesthetics of something just because people tell you that you are.
You might want to respect the aesthetics of a group you don’t belong to, but like, if you’re criticizing your own people, and your criticism is genuinely based on aesthetics and not underlying hatred for your identity, then like, what the fuck ever. Go wild.
And don’t hesitate to make your own flags and use them. No one can stop you, and no one should really try.
me, watching a battle scene: please not the horses. leave them alone. they did nothing wrong. they are the only innocent ones. they don’t deserve this.
honestly this used to upset me a lot as a kid until my mom, who’s worked with horses for many years, told me about how they train the horses in those movies to do things like falling down, kneeling, crawling, or stay laying on the ground after they fall. and how it’s so tough to train a prey animal to do these behaviors and how hard both trainer and horse have to work. so now whenever i see a horse take a hit and go down in a movie, i just think “fucking superb you funky little horse actor”
“It did not growl. It did not make any sounds. It just tried to get in. Apparently it was scared and tried to shelter itself,” said Ray Zavalas, Quiznos employee.
Imagine being at Quiznos and seeing a whole-ass coyote blocking the drinks
Media sometimes uses a snarky butler as a sign of a weak or ineffectual employer, but man, if I had that kind of money, I’d pay extra for a butler who was quick-witted enough to just burn me to the ground at a moment’s notice.
The Chaos Bitches 