To say you aren’t attracted to an ENTIRE race of women that come in LITERALLY every shape, size, and color is in fact RACIST. So congrats on being a Racist.
Actually a black woman only comes in one color; black
& ur penis comes in one size; tiny
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I am screaming!!!!! Because you didn’t have to clap that hard!!
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Lol when you have to come at someone’s dick size cause you’re too dumb to think of a logical comeback bc it’s possible to not be attracted to a women of a certain race.
No…it isn’t. Not unless you find that race unattractive. Which…“bitch you guessed it…hoo” is racist. You need to reread my explanation above Bruh
Yeah there is literally no way you can’t find at least one person in a race attractive. I would understand not wanting to be with a certain race because of cultural differences but you don’t find a whole race attractive??? 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃☺️
I’m literally not attracted to black skin. It’s a turn off. Go live your life and do whatever the fuck you want, but I’m not interested in that. That’s not racism.
1. Black is the race here not the color of their skin…so yeah
2. You do know that black skin comes in every shade(possible for people) from white to onyx? So what you just said is you aren’t attracted to skin if it’s on a black person.
3. You “literally” not being attracted to black skin(im assuming you mean darker skin), is due to ingrained racism. You being conditioned throughout your life by media and etc, to not find dark skin attractive at all. It’s one thing to PREFER to date lighter complexioned people. BUT if someone has dark skin and you immediately right them off as unattractive? That’s due to racism.
4. People need to understand there are LEVELS to racism ranging from. “Chinese men aren’t attractive”, “all Latino men are immigrants” all the way to “all black (the race) people need to be eradicated.”. It isn’t just I hate this race of people.
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Damn this post got even more real👌🏾👍🏾✊🏾👏🏾
He wanted a “logical” come back and got hit with straight INTELLECT. PREACH ON.
Knowledge always wins.
I’m not attracted to Jewish women. Am I a racist?
Jews are a religious group……made up of many different races… Stop putting babyoil on and go learn something.
dance to the rhythm of the clapback
you may not want to be with a group of people because of differences in culture, worldview, politics and so on but when you say that an entire race is unattractive to you that’s a byproduct of racial hatred and the belief that an entire group is somehow inferior.
for example, for years i didn’t date asian women. why? psychologically it’s believed that the groups of people you are most around when you start to explore sexuality are usually the groups that you’ll date. i’m putting it in laymen’s terms but if you want more clinical explanations you should look up “love maps.” to make it even simpler, if you’re around black, hispanics and white people when you enter puberty and begin to awaken sexually, you’re most likely going to date blacks, hispanics and white people overall. now, unless something dramatic happens to you during this period, you will always be attracted to your own race because of familiarity. that’s normal and if familiarity becomes the most important factor in dating someone, that’s fine too. that in and of itself ISN’T racist. back to me now, even though i didn’t date asian women i still saw and/or met many asian women i thought were hella attractive. without question. it just so happen that i didn’t consciously think of asian women when i thought about groups of women i would date because my specific mapping (i.e. there weren’t asians around when i was growing up and going through puberty). that changed after i lived in chinatown in nyc for a few years. which is important to note because one’s mapping is NOT static. it can change and evolve if one allows it to. however, again, i didn’t date asian women but that didn’t keep me from thinking that some asian women i came across were very attractive and sexy. as we speak, asian women are next to last on my list of races i would date (because there’s so much anti-blackness in their culture i just have no desire to even deal with that) but there’s no question that vickibaybeee is hot. i would have to poke my eyes out to say she’s unattractive.
i mean right now, the probability of me dating a white woman is near nill (again because of racist, anti-black traits in their culture) but i see everyday white women are objectively hot. to not have the capacity to see beauty in another race ever is a definite result of ingrained racial hatred. it’s also important to understand the difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to someone because one can happen without the other. “attractive” is to find someone “appealing to look at.” “attracted to” is to be drawn to that person. i’ve found many women attractive without being drawn to them. that happens every day. fuck that happens every morning on my commute to work. nyc is filled to the brim with attractive women but that doesn’t mean i feel a pull to each and every one of them. my problem right now is that i work with a black woman who i find both attractive and i’m attracted to and i don’t date coworkers but she’s fucking amazing. however that’s a story for another day hahaha. so to say that you’ve never seen a black woman who you find appealing to look at is quite literally a mental block that can only come from racist indoctrination. only.
let’s be clear about this too, this isn’t some “black people are desperate for white people to fuck them” shit. that’s not what happening here. instead this is exposing the many forms racism comes in. for instance, i can expose cbs to be a fucking racist shit hole to work at NOT because i want to work there (lawd no) but because the truth should and must be stated. also because white people love to adopt racist and ignorant positions and then claim they’re not racist or ignorant. we all know how that goes.
I’m here for the clapbacks.
But seriously, how are you not attracted to darker skin? Don’t you like “TAN” white girls?
i’m saying…
I’m here for this entire post ✊🏾🙌🏾👍🏾
The feeling of this while reading all of this glory.
Ok but… since I’m gay does that mean that I’m sexist? I can see why people are attracted to women and I can see an attractive woman and understand that she is attractive but I would refuse one if it came down to it. So by your logic every gay person is sexist because we aren’t attracted to women???
To address your comment on my post, 1. Wouldn’t my post apply to people who are sexually attracted to women IF I meant sexual attraction? So your comment was pointless. 2. Switch black women with black men and the same still applies. 3. Gay guys can’t admit that a woman is attractive? Ya know beautiful, pretty, stunning, cute and etc. oh they can? And they do? do you now see how pointless your comment was?
I’m still laughing at the baby oil comment 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So just checking, do the black people on this post, Do you all find some White people attractive? Have you ever dated a white man/woman? Just wondering because the same thing applies. If you don’t then that’s Also racist. I personally find Black Women to be the MOST beautiful women, the darker the more beautiful. If you put me in a room with women from every race and told me to pick one that I’d have to be with forever I’d pick the darkest female in the room. Does that make me racist towards White women even tho I’m white? No. People are attracted to what they’re attracted to. But I can see beauty in ALL women ALL races ALL shapes. My preference tho is black, then Latin, then Asian, then Middle Eastern Then white. But if a person Doesn’t find a certain type of race attractive it doesn’t Necessarily make them Racist. That’s an irresponsible comment. BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER. That would be like saying cuz you don’t find fat/skinny attractive your prejudice. No you like what you like. I like Short women does that make prejudice against Tall women? No I just like what I like. NOW its different if one says “Black people are Ugly” that IS racist. You Should be able to SEE beauty in All races Somewhere. But that’s different than Attraction. So I think some of you have Attraction and Seeing Beauty MIXED up.
I agree that it is racist to not be able to find anyone attractive simply based off their race.
Now on to the next thing. Seee your “beauty is in the eye of the beholder l” comment sounds all well and good. But you completely ignored the portion @alwaysbewoke wrote. We live in a world where beauty standards established by media and stereotypes can and do set what people are attracted to.
Does everyone only follow these standards? No. But a good majority of people that don’t find black women(the many races with black) attractive, do not find them attractive due to centuries of stereotypes and propaganda against black skin and blackness period. So there is internalized racism that has manifested itself into “preference”. Can people think for themselves? Ofcourse. But you can also have your opinions affected by others.
and seriously why are people so bad at basic logic, reasoning and reading? i literally gave you a clear cut example of the difference between acknowledging that someone is attractive and being attracted to someone and yet you STILL MISSED IT? like damn! what op is stating is exactly correct but let me expound for a second. the reason why i have never met a anti racist white person who DID NOT shun whiteness is because whiteness as a culture and ideology is built on the idea that white is superior and everything else (especially Black and blackness) is wholly inferior. the day johann friedrich created “race” as we know it and claimed that caucasian was the “original race” white people built an entire culture on that and through that found an excuse to go around the world abusing, killing and enslaving everyone who wasn’t white. as the years went on this idea of white superiority gave rise to new forms of subjugation, misinformation, lies, propaganda, fake science and societal norms to name a few. one of those being the lie that
caucasian males and female were and are the zenith of masculinity and femininity, the most desirable of all men and women, their features being the standard of what male and female beauty is and should aspire to. this lie was/is told over and over and over and over again in both overt and subtle ways for centuries through every form of sigular and mass communication. to the point that many black people, even till this day, find their skin, nose, hair, eyes, lips… their very bodies wholly UNATTRACTIVE, UNAPPEALING, UNWORTHY and truly wish they could be white. and on the other side of the coin, white people were also taught to find black people and their african-like features to not only be unattractive but to even connect it with criminality, baseness and impurity. this is whiteness and this is why you can’t tell me you’re not a racist white person without proving that you’ve shunned this culture. and one of the very simple and subtle ways you we can check is by what this post is exposing. one of the ways we can see in all people (black, white, asian, hispanic, native and everything in between) if the education of whiteness has taken a hold of your mind is by this rather simple and yet important test presented by this post. in many ways this is very much like that the harvard implicit bias test that showed that white people (among other races of course) had a much harder time associating positive terms and words with black people. i’m sure all those people would shout from the mountaintops that they are not racist and yet they couldn’t associate a photo of a smiling black person with the word “good.“ and what we are seeing here is a bunch of people who can’t associate “attractive” with “black woman” and instead of just admitting “fuck i’m racist. i need to work on this” or ” i’m a self hating Black man/woman. i need to fix myself” we are seeing the range of excuses use by most in place of actual self correction. typical.
the point of this post is NOT to say you need to see a black woman and say/feel/want to fuck her otherwise you’re racist. it’s saying that if you’ve never seen a black woman who you thought was simply attractive, pretty, beautiful and/or pleasant to behold, it is because you’re racist and you are racist because you’ve not only been educated by whiteness, you’ve held onto it. you’ve adopted it.
and to answer your questions (AS I DID IN MY REPLY) the chances of me dating a white woman is slim to none HOWEVER that doesn’t keep me from acknowledging that, for instance, reneesomerfield is attractive. fuckable (i.e attracted to)? not in my eyes, not to me but still attractive. understand the difference? no interest in dating, sleeping with her but i can easily admit that she’s pretty (i.e attractive) however avielleamor i find attractive AND i want to do things to her that might be illegal in certain parts of the country hahaha. somebody hook me up! hahaha.
it’s a little funny how this post is exposing the racism in so many people who i am sure have always claimed to NOT be racist. like mlk said
Bra. Fucking. Vo. Bravo people! I still can’t get how people don’t understand this basic concept! It’s very simple: it’s easy to find someone attractive without being attracted to them. This has been said multiple times in the posts above me. Yet some ignorant people still can’t figure this out. I can see a dude and say that’s a handsome dude, yet I’m not attracted to men I’m only attracted to women. Doesn’t make me gay to admit that. I’m not attracted to white women in the sense of dating them, but I’ve definitely seen white women that are attractive. You can be unattracted to black women in the sense of dating, but at the same time see the beauty in someone who is black. If you can’t then I have to agree you’re probably a racist.
not probably. absolutely. whiteness can’t be your culture, your education and expect anyone to not think you’re a racist when you start saying shit like “i’ve never found a black woman attractive” which is basically saying “i’ve never seen a black woman who i thought was pretty.” that’s the same shit.
i also like on the low @doctordickinya tried to take us down the road of “reverse racism” with the question to black people “do you find white people attractive?” let me tell you something, i’ve met some of the most pro-black militant black people around and even they had/have the capacity to admit when a white man or woman is good looking. not “i want to sleep with, fuck that white…” no. a simple “yea he/she is good looking” or “he/she is aight” however understand they do it begrudgingly because it’s hard to look past white racism. it’s hard to look past 400+ years, 7 continents, billions of lies, millions of lives, slavery, segregation, sundown towna, racist policing, lynching, cultural appropriation, ghettos, #alllivesmatter, denial of privilege, rewriting of history, whitewashing and all that when your eyes are open and you’re looking at a white person. when you’re conscious you realize that the vast majority of white people are racist, you know the probability is very high that white person you’re looking at is a racist. they might be a “#alllivesmatter” racist or a kkk racist, they might be a “why can’t white people say the n-word” racist or a “let’s throw a black face party” racist but chances are good they’re a racist. therefore if you or i were to come upon black people who refused to find white people attractive, it wouldn’t be racist, that would be natural reaction to a race that has built an entire culture, identity, science and country on black dehumanization. like malcolm said
for the white man to ask the black man if he hates him is just like the rapist asking the raped, or the wolf asking the sheep, ‘do you hate me?’ the white man is in no moral position to accuse anyone else of hate! why, when all of my ancestors are snake-bitten, and i’m snake-bitten, and i warn my children to avoid snakes, what does that snake sound like accusing me of hate-teaching?
i have never met a black person who didn’t dislike white people whose reasons weren’t based squarely in white racism. not one. white people like to ignore that and claim that it’s just an excuse for “black racism” but that’s what you should expect from them. for white people to actually take responsibility for shit would be a revolutionary act. they’ll rather tell you that racism not around anymore, there’s no such thing as segregation anymore, that black people are the most racist people around, black on black crime and the classic “i didn’t do anything” while they cooperate with and perpetuate racist systems and constructs daily. dai-ly!
so understand that it’s not the same. one group, white people, have made an entire culture and country based on (among other things) the lie that black people are animals, inferior and base in every way possible and white people is the apex of humanity. through that lens white people are unable to find black people attractive. the other group, black people, have been stolen, abused, raped, murdered, oppressed and altogether dehumanized by white people (past and present) and it is through that lens a black person may indeed find it impossible to see any beauty in a white man or woman and that’s natural. don’t like these self-victimizing, lying, history rewriting, racism ignoring, willfully blind white people make you think it’s the same. it is most certainly not. these are the same people who would have you believe that the black panthers and the kkk were the same and that black pride and white pride are also the same. bull-shit.
however like malcolm said “here was one of the white man’s most characteristic behavior patterns — where black men are concerned. he loves himself so much that he is startled if he discovers that his victims don’t share his vainglorious self-opinion.”
This post needs to be a damn guide to dating. Like the implicit bias of dating.
The sad thing is it’s not just white people that think like this. Like white peoples way of thinking infected everyone bc of their bulshit forced power and control of literature everything
White gays please also take note. Yes having racial preferences is racist. Fetishization of racial groups is also racist as it’s built upon stereotypes and media tropes of groups of people. The only people who can be or benefit from racism is the group that holds and maintains the institutions that support it. POC can and sadly are at times bigoted but racism is waaaay more than the jack ass clutching their purse on the bus. Its way more than refusing poc in a restaurant.
It’s layers upon layers of history and exploitation reenforced under capitalism to benefit those that are in power.
Capitalism has been great at shifting the problem from being viewed as systemic to being personal. It’s not the continued use of sweatshops, intentionally misleading practices, taking economic wealth from certain communities, continued unexposure to different groups in media, exploitation of less fortunate nations, history of genecide, mass deportation without juries, nor privatization of prisons….. nope it’s the fault of individuals.
People who say they aren’t into certain shades or Trans people refuse or can’t see they’ve been manipulated by systems of power since day 1
This a long ass post but a good read
There are women races I’m not really attracted too but i can admit that every race has some women that are gorgeous no matter my preferences
The Chaos Bitches 