All Parents Can Be Butts – The Chaos Bitches

novafuzzcheeks:

souleaterunlimited:

punk-memelord-enthusiast:

daeranilen:

real-pcys:

real-pcys:

hot take: moms need to learn how to listen to and comfort their daughters without making everything about their own traumas

a classic example

daughter: hey this thing you do bothers me very much and i wish you wouldn’t do it

mom: well my parents abused me and im not even as bad as they were and i had to sit through it so you gotta sit through whatever i do to you too

a common variant

mom: well i’m having a really hard time right now and you know that i’m doing my best and that i didn’t mean to hurt you ergo you are in fact the asshole for asking me to consider your feelings and change my behavior during this hard hard time i’m having

yo this also applies to mother-son relationships

And father son relationships!

And Father Daughter lmao

Dad: shoves me against the couch while I’m holding a fork

Mom: Well HIS dad used to throw him down the stairs you know

(but my mom was the queen of excuses)